Untethered Paws

R-U-Ok? We are here.

I talk to animals. I lost my service dogs.

Miko (2009-2025) — 16 years of service. Jiraiya (2011-2026) — 15 years of service. This is for everyone grieving a working partner.

Miko and Jiraiya together
Miko & Jiraiya
16 years & 15 years of service

"You are not alone tonight."

📖 The R-U-Ok? Grief Framework

Acknowledge → Express → Routine → Support → Community. Your way.

R
Recognize your pain
U
Unfold your feelings
O
Organize your routine
K
Kindness & support
?
Re-connect your way
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🎥 A Message for You

I lost Miko after 16 years. Jiraiya after 15. This is what I want you to know about grief, guilt, and hope.

💡 Click play, then click "Watch on YouTube" if needed.

Recent Reflections

They spoke. I listened. Then they left.

Introducing Miko and Jiraiya — 16 and 15 years of loyal service...

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R – Acknowledge your pain

The first step is the hardest. Say "I am grieving" out loud...

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The leash is gone. What now?

Reinventing your morning routine after loss...

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